Well, that's that!!
Josie
About a JACKET and the Durfee sisters on their missionary adventures!
o I have great news! I am not puking anymore! YEAHH!! Not only that I am 100 percent better(: Thanks for all of your prayers! And I hope that all of you know what movie the title came from if not shame on you! Tuesday night we had dinner with Sister Redd. She took us out to Chick-Fil-A and on the ride home we were quoting a lot of Princes Bride. Thus the title for my e-mail.
This will probably be a short e-mail. Nothing too crazy or exciting happened. I am having a few struggles getting along with Sister Mortensen. I find that the littlest things she does really annoy me. Yesterday morning was particularly hard we then went to a lesson with Jonathan (a struggling 17 year old). After feeling the spirit of that lesson we got into the car and I looked at Sister Mortensen and no longer felt upset or annoyed. I realized that I needed to look at her as Christ would. Even though it will be hard and most of you know I can be extremely prideful. I am going to do my best to be the best companion for her even though she might not be for me.
Something else I have learned this week is work your hardest. I believe it was Thursday, we had Zone Conference from 9-4:30. It was wonderful but by the end of it I was exhausted! I was able to see some missionaries that I had missed. Oh! And! Elder Hoyt, my first District Leader, who happens to be a BYU football player (look him up), is now the new AP (Assistant to the President). People thought it crazy that he went from District Leader to AP but to me it makes so much sense! He is one of the best missionaries I have met on my mission. They had us do speed role playing. We were in lines and we had to do a street contact of one minute about different topics they assigned us. Guess which topic was the last. The Law of Chastity (no sexual relationships before marriage). A street contact about the Law of Chastity? Hahaha needless to say I did pretty well(: But like I said it was pretty tiring. I didn't really want to go out and work and though every muscle in my body said I need sleep we went out to work anyways! Then of course a miracle happened. A less-active, Sister Lucero, we had been trying to visit with for months now with no success we decided to try. She was home and we shared a wonderful message with her. It was a testimony to me that as long as we are working our hardest we will see miracles!(:
Sorry that this e-mail is on the short side(: I'm sure that exciting things are just around the corner. I would love your prayers. A goal that the mission has sent is for every companionship to have a baptism in December so that we can have a "White Christmas".
Love you guys so much! Stay Sweet and Don't Do Drugs(:
Hermana Durfee
This week is going to be short. We finally got into a routine sadly. So it wasn't that exciting. Correction. Missionary work is always exciting! haha
I think the most exciting thing about this week probably was The Food Bank of The Rockies. Its an awesome way to do service!
I am really sorry this e-mail is short. As we go into week 5 I am sure I'll have more fun and crazy stories for you(:
AND of course I have pictures. But you need to thank Elder Jijon for them(:
Love you guys so much! It will be a better e-mail next week I promise.
OH KAY! Crazy stuff has been happening in the Denver Colorado mission. The first thing is that I AM BEING TRANSFERED! After spending almost 6 months in Fort Lupton they finally are sending me away. Friday night we were at Jose's house (a member) with the Fort Lupton Elders and a set of Elders and Sisters from the Monte Vista ward. We were all anxiously waiting for a call. The call to train. But by the time we had to go none of us had received a call. I was a little disappointed at that point because I really wanted to train but not much. We had just drove up to our house and were about to plan (making it about 9:30-9:40ish) when I saw that we were getting a call from one of the AP's. I looked at Sister Mortensen excitedly and said, "Its the call!" and answered. However, it wasn't for me, it was for Sister Mortensen, who excepted the position as trainer, very quietly. She is super nervous to be leading and area plus training. That night I couldn't sleep. One because I was sad that it wasn't me that was the trainer, kind of thinking maybe God thought I wasn't ready for it. Two, because I knew I was going Spanish. I was sick to my stomach the whole night and didn't fall asleep till like 2:30am.
Then Saturday morning we went to Aurora to go to the trainer's meeting that Sis. Mortensen had to attend. One of the AP's, Elder Farrales, came to talk to us and I lean close to him and say, "Come on Farrales, give me a hint on what is happening to me." He leans a little closer and says, "You're getting a jeep." He smiled at me and I knew he was joking (or at least I thought). I laughed and said, "If only" and the meeting started. After the meeting, I went up to President Toombs hoping that I could get something out of him since Farrales didn't give me anything. He just laughed and then looked at me and said, "Okay, I'll give you one hint. You're going Spanish." I nodded at replied, "Okay, if that is what the Lord wants me to do, then I'll do it." Not soon after did my stomach ache return and I was feeling very small. What it really comes down to is my Spanish. I just don't feel like I'm good enough to go to a Spanish ward.
The Lord always blesses me with a tender mercy during my lowest times. I had let my sister (cousin) Linds know that I would be in Aurora and that she could get her brownie pan back. She came and gave me a huge hug. Of course I'm trying not to cry. She then takes Sis. Mortensen and I out for lunch. And then... I was less nervous and more excited. (just a tad). It was nice to spend some time with someone I loved. Another blessing that occurred was I knew a little bit before that I was leaving because Pres. Toombs told me I was going Spanish. So I had Saturday AND Sunday to say good bye, unlike the usual which is only Sunday. So I made my Fort Lupton goodbye rounds that day. Granted, I don't know where exactly I would be going I just knew I would leave. Then Transfer Doctrine comes. Some crazy things happened that night. Expected things and some REALLY unexpected things.
Names were read out loud and people were told where they were going. One of the names that really caught ALL of us off guard was Elder Bryan. He and Elder Gallegos were serving in the Fort Lupton ward with us. Elder Gallegos has know his fate for a LONG time. He's going home after two years. We all knew that Elder Bryan would get a new companion. We all assumed that he would stay in Fort Lupton and just lead the area. But when they called out Elder Bryan's name, he was being transferred! To Greenwood Valley in Denver. I looked and saw totally shock and disappointment in his eyes. That was totally unexpected... for all. Then I hear my name, "Sister Durfee, you will be transferred to the Denver 4th ward in the Aurora South Zone. Your new companion will be Hermana Trujillo (Tru-hiyo). Guess what, Hermana Trujillo is in my zone, she was in the same room as me. We looked at each other excited! Then we realized that we would be what we as missionaries call, "Swept". Meaning that both of us will be new to the area.
So lets step back a little and evaluate the situation, I will be senior companion for the first time in my mission, I will be driving in an area that I have no idea direction wise (I probably will have to buy a GPS). My Spanish isn't the best because I've been in an English area for almost 6 months of my mission. There is a lot of things that I could look at negatively however, yesterday, we were driving and most of the nervousness that I was feeling was replaced with determination. I am going to take this new crazy adventure with all my might. I would ask for your prayers, specifically for the language to come to me so I can teach these amazing people. Show them that there is a way to become more happy then they might already be. Luckily Hermana Trujillo is a native Spanish speaker so its going to be good.
Now, I only have a few concerns. One is that the Fort Lupton ward is getting new elders, again. And I know one of them. His name is Elder Aragon. He's not very obedient. Something that Elder Gallegos said to me was, "It only takes one elder to mess up a ward." I am truly praying that he wont be THAT elder. I've told the right people my concern, but it is now my turn to give him the benefit of the doubt. I am going to trust him with the people I love. I really love those people. It was so hard to say goodbye these past few days but most of them told me that its going to be great. Is something that I've told other people as well. I guess I should take my own advice.
So now its off to a new area. I still have no clue where we are supposed to go once I pick up Hermana Trujillo. I have no idea where we are living... This is going to be so much fun. For those who wrote me e-mails this week I have saved a little bit of e-mail time for tomorrow so I'll respond as soon as I can! Christmas is around the corner! Keep your thoughts on our Savior(: And look up The Wexford Carol, probably my favorite Christmas song of all time!(:
I love you all! Stay Sweet, Don't Do Drugs!
Hermana Durfee
Eveybody Clap Your Hands! Since I've been here I've experienced, hobos, drunk people, vicious dogs, a wedding, and many other crazy things. Where is here you may ask? Downtown Denver baby!
So here are a few stories about my new crazy life. Transfer day has come and gone. Trujillo and I were pretty much just going to wing the whole thing. We didn't have a clue where we were going to live, didn't have a GPS, no phone either. We only knew a few steps and then its rely on the Lord time. Well He provided. An elder let me borrow his GPS. The zone leaders where there to give us directions, keys, and our phone. So the next adventure was to get to our apartment. I didn't realize how downtown our home was until I was driving through it. Probably my favorite part of the day is finding a parking place near our apartment every night. haha.
Our apartment is now wonderful and beautiful but you should have seen it when we first walked in. It stunk and was... yeah... No thanks to the elders that lived there before. They did do the dishes though haha. There was a giant map of our area and the do's and don'ts of the area. "Don't talk to the hobos they ask for money, not food, money." "Don't walk on Colfax..." (the street right next to us) "...after 7pm." "Don't ever go through City Park." Okay so mostly Don'ts. The only do's were, "This is the best Icecream shop ever!" hahaha. And because I'm a rebel ( ;D ) I went to City Park, and this week we are going to walk on Cofax after 7. KIDDING... maybe... ;)
On Friday we attended a wedding that a set of Elders put on. Yes, pretty much these Elders planned this wedding. Its something that we struggle being in a Spanish ward. Some of the people we are teaching don't have papers thus can't get legally married. Which they need to be in order to be baptized. Elder Jijon (or He-Haw as we call him) and Elder Robertson did a fantastic job. There was a really small turn out in the beginning but we waited just a little longer and then the people arrived. The kind of stupid thing about being in a Spanish ward is that they truly believe that you can't dance. Of course we can't dance with someone or anything other then appropriate but I CAN DANCE GOSH DARN IT! haha for example... The Cupid Shuffle came on and I wanted to go join the line but couldn't. I was really sad. Oh well...
One last crazy story... Though its probably more funny for Trujillo and me but I'll tell it anyways. There was a potential that we went to contact around 7pm at night. As we head up to the door we see a grey almost terrierish dog by one of the parked cars. Of course being the animal lover that I am I call to it. Mistake. When it got a little closer I realized that it had its hackles raised and that it was baring its teeth. We both drop our 50lbs purses off our shoulders ready to wack it one if it got any closer. Eventually Trijillo bent down to pick up a rock and before she got back up it had scampered off. Well about 2 days after we were in the same neighborhood again at 7pm in the dark. Trijillo gives me a look and I know what she's thinking.
"No, nu uh! I'm not going to die today by a vicious dog!".... "Okay fine." And I picked up a rock to arm myself. We are almost to the door when we hear barking and we get scared we start running. We then realized that nothing was coming after us and we turn around to go back to the house when we see a white dog just staring at us. We jumped and screamed... hahaha Oh man the poor thing. We start laughing so hard. The dog probably just wanted to come and see what we were doing and we reacted the way we did. He scampered off real quick.
Okay that story is not as funny as I think it is and its pretty lame. Okay got to go... AH my session is ending!
Love you guys! Don't Do Drugs and Stay Sweet!
Hermana Durfee
So... we've have a lot of snow and its been super cold. Yesterday it didn't get over 10 degrees. Luckily we had appointments with some members so we didn't have to tract in it. But dang, its been so cold. Plus we have an awful car. I am super grateful to have one however, when you are sliding all the time... I tend to get a little worried every now and then. One time we were trying to go up a hill but the opposite happened and we were sliding down. Its time like those I really miss my jeep. Oh Chief. But the really good news is that we hit 50,000 miles last week and they retire cars when they hit that. So hopefully we get a new car soon... really soon.
Though its been really cold we have had really warm days too. Last p-day was pretty decent and we went to hit up 16th Street Mall. It was super fun! Then another warm day was actually Friday before the snow. We walked a lot because it was so nice. In fact we were in the ghetto in the middle of a neighborhood and we saw this Mexican Resturant called Luceros. With its barred up windows it said "You've tried the rest, now have the best." The crazy person in me wanted to try it, plus I was really hungery. Trujillo didn't. But I convinced her. Turns out not to be that ghetto. Three pretty ladies were running it. I got mexican chili-cheese fries that were super good. So I was disappointed that it was as ghetto as it looked but really satisfied with the food(: haha.
New Years came and went. Another thing that I was kind of disappointed in. Since we are downtown and right off of Colfax which has the reputation to be crazy, I was expecting it to be loud and full of noise.... It wasn't. We did hear the fireworks that were going off in the city though. I guess I can't have it all huh? haha
This week truly has been a week of new beginnings! Trujillo and I set two goals. One: to reach 10 lessons this week. And Two: Get more service hours. Both we reached. We got exactly 10 lessons and 8 hours of service. It was so awesome. We also got a "new" investigator. Her name was Martha and she was actually a former of about 5 years ago. We've been contacting all the potentials and formers since we've been here. Its has really been pretty awesome. Most of our new investigators came from the potential list.
Then on Saturday my companion and I went on exchanges with our Sister Training Leaders. I went with Sister Hand into her area. It was a hard day. It was snowing, really cold and no body was home. But we didn't give up. We were contacting a less-active when we saw a young man, who turned out to be 20, shoveling his mom's sidewalk, watching a video on his phone and smoking a cigarette. We asked him if he would want to listen to our message and he said, "I always have time for the Lord." It didn't stop there. During the whole lesson the Spirit was so strong. We were talking about the Nephites and Lamenites. He said, "I've heard of them before." We showed him a picture of Thomas S. Monson and his counselors and he says, "I feel like I know them. Seriously." and then when Sister Hand asked him to be baptized he said, "YES! on my birthday!" (which turned out to be in April) Sister Hand asked if we could shoot for something sooner and he said, "Or sooner that great too!" It was amazing! I text Sister Hand yesterday and the sad news is that he went back to his dads and we don't know where that is. I know we'll find him again. He is one of the elect! For sure!
Alright, if I want to send pictures I should end this. I love you guys! I hope everything is going great! Know that you are all in my prayers!
Don't Do Drugs and Stay Sweet(:
Hermana Durfee